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I agree. We have a saying around here, Formerly -- it was made up by Coach and a guy named Mulesqb (you'd be wise to look up his old posts and threads when you get a chance, btw -- great, great stuff). The phrase is

"Strength and Honor."


You, sir, are exhibiting BOTH thus far.

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It never ceases to amaze me how people deny truth, when confronted with hard evidence. lalalala....it doesnt exist.

Fortunately, the truth at some point must be reconciled.

Great work!


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My W was trying to login into my MSN account earlier. I found out and changed the password.

I guess she definitely knows about what's happening in OM's house and is trying to find how much do I actually know.

Still no calls/msgs from her to me.

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I'm following this too and have been since I arrived at DB. Hang on in there - you're doing a fantastic job mate.


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Originally Posted By: Formelyknowas


I guess she definitely knows about what's happening in OM's house and is trying to find how much do I actually know.


Exactly. And without good intel, she will be left to assume you know . . . EVERYTHING.

Precisely right.

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Originally Posted By: Formelyknowas
My W was trying to login into my MSN account earlier. I found out and changed the password.

I guess she definitely knows about what's happening in OM's house and is trying to find how much do I actually know.

Still no calls/msgs from her to me.


I would go through and change all your passwords. During the separation with my xw, she was able to check my business account and then have a weekend or two with her enabling best friend on me. Imagine how angry I was to see she had spent $400 in an hour on nothing. I also set my bank accounts to give me alerts.

I wouls suspect your W will change her passowrds now, so get whatever info you can ASAP.

On a side note....my wx still tries to take money from me! I caught ger last month trying to take $5 from my personal account! Her boyfriend doesnt have a job, so I guess every little bit helps!


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Wouldn't hurt to keep your OWN computer locked, too, and also sweep your car occasionally for a voice-activated recorder.

Probably won't be needed, as she'll be likely wrapped up in her own stuff, but it's always wise to play good defense even while on OFFENSE.

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Hey Frac -

Just offering a hello and support! smile You're still doing so well!


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Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Wouldn't hurt to keep your OWN computer locked, too, and also sweep your car occasionally for a voice-activated recorder.
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No worries, we're separated. She doesn't have access to any of my stuff nor knows where I live.


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Thank you. Most appreciated.


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