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Very well handled, under some (mutually) trying circumstances.

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It also proves the point that he won't be leaving his wife any time soon.
Otherwise, why lie? And that's not good news for my W.

I'm expecting her to be fuming about this but she hasn't called.


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Originally Posted By: Formelyknowas
It also proves the point that he won't be leaving his wife any time soon.
Otherwise, why lie? And that's not good news for my W.


No, but it IS good news for YOU. smile

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Very well handled, under some (mutually) trying circumstances.

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Thanks, man.


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Originally Posted By: Formelyknowas
It also proves the point that he won't be leaving his wife any time soon.
Otherwise, why lie? And that's not good news for my W.


I think it is good news for your W, (not that she'll be thanking you for it any time soon ). Hopefully, your actions have prevented her from becoming further involved with a guy who is lying to her and stringing her along. Now maybe, she will have a shot at mending her marriage to a good man.


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I know it's too soon to even ask but, I'll ask anyway.

I've been reading this book Gnosis recommended "After the affair" to try and understand what's happening to me, etc and it was really helped me. It explains really well why affair happen and why they feel the way they feel and how it's all unreal, etc. Do you think reading something like that will help her at some point to recover her sense?

At which point do you think it will be worth sharing it? (after the affair of course)
We're separated so I'd only have to order it and she'll get it.


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At some point, yes. Just not now.

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ok


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He said the flowers were because my W had lost a sister!


He didn't think on his feet very well now did he?

Of course I have seen more obvious lies than this one that the BS STILL believes the wayward spouse over the evidence.


Keep the evidence mounting and keep up the pressure on him..

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Formerly, I've been following your sitch. I don't have much else to offer you, as you have the best people giving you advice on how to deal with your sitch. I did want to tell you how impressed I am with the way you have conducted yourself. Absolutely tremendous job! I applaud you! Keep up the good work! You're fighting for your marriage, well done.


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