WAW and the law of attraction

[Steve McQueen]

No worries, we're separated. She doesn't have access to any of my stuff nor knows where I live.

she doesnt even care to know where you live?

[FormelyknownasF]

She didn't ask. I didn't care to tell her.
THis has only been a month, remember?
I agreed to give her time to think things through.

[FormelyknownasF]

Mmm, OM W deleted me as a friend on facebook.
Would that mean OM lied his way through this successfully?
On the other hand, W hasn't called.

Should I worry?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Worry? No. You can't control OW, and what she decides to do. You gave her the information she needed in order to protect herself, and make her own decisions, and she has to make those.

Would this indicate, to me, that her husband is BS'ing her? Yeah. I think so.

[robx]

well you can still send her emails even without being a friend on crackbook, it's very possible that he lied to her to save his butt, or maybe he turned it around and made it look like she's cheating with you, if the guy is good with mind games anything is possible.

I would keep sending the evidence to her, if she tells you she doesn't care, you can stop, no harm done.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

well you can still send her emails even without being a friend on crackbook, it's very possible that he lied to her to save his butt, or maybe he turned it around and made it look like she's cheating with you, if the guy is good with mind games anything is possible.

I would keep sending the evidence to her, if she tells you she doesn't care, you can stop, no harm done.

Yep -- agreed.

[chatterbug]

And always make sure the messages are accurate. No pressure. No offers to meet up. Keep everything above the board.
For once its in the wild you have no control over who reads it and retains it.

Remember this always.

And the day she says stop contacting me. Stop.

[FormelyknownasF]

Would this indicate, to me, that her husband is BS'ing her? Yeah. I think so.

Still, don't you think that puts OM on a leash at least temporarily?
And maybe proved my wife that he won't leave his family?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Would this indicate, to me, that her husband is BS'ing her? Yeah. I think so.

Still, don't you think that puts OM on a leash at least temporarily?
And maybe proved my wife that he won't leave his family?

It could. This is where I like to have intel in place, so that I can know what's going on, rather than guess or mind-read.

[chatterbug]

who cares. carry on with your plan. Work on your own house. Not theres. Keep with bringing the affair into the light.