I would keep sending the evidence to her, if she tells you she doesn't care, you can stop, no harm done.
The thing is I don't really have that much left. The one I sent was hard hitting, anyway. If she doesn't buy that, she'll only buy pictures of them kissing or something more obvious. I don't have that.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
I would estimate, that during my wife's 3-month affair, that nearly HALF the time, what I THOUGHT was going on (from observation, what she was telling me, etc.) was NOT what was REALLY going on (as confirmed by my intel system).
In some cases, had I gone by what APPEARED to be going on, my response would have been devastatingly OPPOSITE of what it SHOULD have been.
I would keep sending the evidence to her, if she tells you she doesn't care, you can stop, no harm done.
The thing is I don't really have that much left. The one I sent was hard hitting, anyway. If she doesn't buy that, she'll only buy pictures of them kissing or something more obvious. I don't have that.
Her choice.
Sounds like we need a new name for this approach -- "The Big-Bird Approach." (as betrayed wife sticks her big ostrich head in the sand . . . )
When she's ready, she'll be ready. All you can do is what you've done.
