Ethics of Snooping

[TeleDad]

^^^

So true! your sanity is what matters.

Beating my head against the wall just doesn't feel good - (especially after the first couple times)

[mrbt]

. . . your ego doesn't want to just come out and admit she is still in the affair.

This made me think of a quote from the movie Pulp Fiction.

Butch [beating up Marsellus]
"You feel that sting, big boy, huh? That's pride F*@#IN' with you! You gotta fight through that sh@t!"

[Ready2Change]

Pup. For me, its just a desire to understand why the marriage failed.

The answer to your question is here on these boards, the books people here recommend etc.....details are different, but the patterns are the same.