Ok, I understand, Koekie. There might be some confusion. I think you're referring to the list at the beginning of this thread. I'd suggest that you start your own thread so it's easier for all the guys here to offer you advice relevant to your specific situation.
It's really helpful and it's also a very good way to keep track on your actions.
I wish that your situation gets better. Keep working on it. You'll get lots of good advice in here!
Last edited by Formelyknowas; 04/01/1006:06 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
So I should just go? Leave my kids? Break their hearts too? Of course if nothing changes it would break anyway. But if she wants out, why does she not move out? She is free to do so. It does not seem really fair to me. She wants split but want me to take the first huge pain of cutting myself of from being with the kids daily. If she is so convinced she can do that, no problem with me.
I would appreciate further comments to my reply to you:
So I should just go? Leave my kids? Break their hearts too? Of course if nothing changes it would break anyway. But if she wants out, why does she not move out? She is free to do so. It does not seem really fair to me. She wants split but want me to take the first huge pain of cutting myself of from being with the kids daily. If she is so convinced she can do that, no problem with me.
Ok, I understand, Koekie. There might be some confusion. I think you're referring to the list at the beginning of this thread. I'd suggest that you start your own thread so it's easier for all the guys here to offer you advice relevant to your specific situation.
It's really helpful and it's also a very good way to keep track on your actions.
