S13 has a bruised bone, torn ligament, and a sprain. CheckCheckCheck. W/that said, he is wrapped in an UNA (sp?) boot, and has been prescribed an anti-inflammatory. He has to rest it for two days, and then see how much he can take. The Dr. thinks he'll be able to run the 1600 at State on the 15th. (SHOCK!)
I'm totally wiped. I spent a good part of the weekend catching up on work, and the house... Today, I'm just being blasted w/work. They have extended offers to two people to cover my territory. And, we'll take both of them if they both agree. (I KNOW - INSERT JOKE - It takes two men to cover one Mindfull territory!)
Tomorrow, to the Dr. w/S10 (ankle), and MORE WORK!
Wednesday, I'm in Madison. And, Thursday at a BIG PHARMA in the suburbs. (Note, no smile.) And, somewhere in all of this I need to get to Kalamazoo, prior to my CA trip. I'm ready for these men to get hired, and handle this!
How am I supposed to catch up on the db boards, fb, OTHER interests, etc... if I'm gone all the time!?
Off to soccer (even though neither boy can train!).
D18 needs a spanking, too.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
She is fine. She might not be after I'm done w/her.
I found out on Wednesday that her insurance had lapsed. By (with grace period) by two days. And, she totaled someone else's car. Nice. She's home now (fire at her apt forced them all out - THAT wasn't their fault, Thank God!). So.... we're dealing w/D18 w/NO CAR, and tons of places to be (and, I'm not thrilled w/helping out), D18's possible pulling of her license, her being SUED by the other driver (luckily we took our names off of her title, when she became responsible for her her own insurance). MAN, is it a good things she's CUTE!
I'm better now, though. A bit of a stressful few days.
Oh, and once I confront H re: infidelity... I've made a decision. A legal SA would serve no purpose. I don't want to wait out a Separation. I'm done.
Amazingly, though. I had a good day.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Sorry about D18, but thank goodness you aren't on her title/insurance!!!
And good for you on the filing. If you haven't read the Sandra Bullock interview in People, I really suggest it. She went straight to filing as well. Said she had no tolerance, no room in her life for the behaviors her soon to be ex was displaying....if I had a time machine I'd go back and do the same thing...
Glad you had a good day. I am jealous, I want to go to Madison! Gotta check out Fergie's legs and also see my brother Woog from the boards, he moved there awhile back...
I think 18 years olds must be lobotomized. What I haven't figured out is when they get repaired!
We went through that with S18 this past fall totalling his car... and he WAS still on our insurance. Thankfully it was determined to not be his fault. But, like you... this accident happened around the time our sitch was coming to a head. Like you need THAT extra stress at this time.
Still... you sound like you are managing amazingly well right now. Clearly you have determined what your limits are and that they have been reached.
And... you have the most FABULOUS, supportive, good looking support group on the planet... What more could ya want?
This goes on my list as reason #798 not to have children...
Argh! Sorry this is piling on all the other crap. Plus now that she's back at home it means there isn't an empty room for me!
Deep breaths and a couple glasses of wine.
And I, too, totally support the straight to filing decision. Why waste time when you know what you want? If it's a deal breaker then it's a deal breaker.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Mindfull - I was here awhile ago and now I am back. I just read your sitch and I admire your stregnth and courage to do what is best for you. I was looking to see if you shared what you found out, but haven't seen it. Either way the truth shall set you free to move on and not wonder.
You sound like a wonderful Mom, you have good support here and there! Keep on keeping on! Do what makes you happy!
Take care,
irish_love __________________________ M 36 H 38 M 14/T 18 4 kids EA Bomb 03/2008 ILYBNILWY 06/2007 & 11/2007 H moving out 5/2008
And, Thursday at a BIG PHARMA in the suburbs. (Note, no smile.) And, somewhere in all of this I need to get to Kalamazoo, prior to my CA trip. I'm ready for these men to get hired, and handle this! 
We went through that with S18 this past fall totalling his car... and he WAS still on our insurance. Thankfully it was determined to not be his fault. But, like you... this accident happened around the time our sitch was coming to a head. Like you need THAT extra stress at this time.
What more could ya want? 
