Miss H, Wow! What awesome news!! It definitely sounds like things are going in your favor! So happy for you! Guess your ex isn't as smart as he thought he is. It's always funny when they can't keep their lies straight.
Miss H, I knew all along he was full of it. He is one of these kind of people that think they can just go into court and say anything and they will believe it. If I were you, I would sock it to him HARD! Ask for an increase, ask for the moon! I would guarantee you will get it! When its over, send him a message that if he tries it again, you will ask for another raise! Do that once and you won't hear back from him again!
Finally, some good news for you. Just wait until he has to appear again, I don't think this judge is going to give him any wiggle room.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
So was he made to pay you anything now or do you have to wait until June? Glad to hear the judge si a smart cookie. Nice to see him squirm after all of his lying.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I still can't believe that he is supporting his bimbo while the kids and I have been going without for the last 6 months.
So disgusting.
There is no reason in the first place they need a 4 bedroom house, on an acre piece of property, in a rich neighborhood.
My mortgage should come first as I am housing the children. I hope the judge sees it that way too.
I also found out that the money that my [arents has been giving me to live on and attorney fees has really been coming from my aunt (Dad's sister). I was shocked when my Dad told me that. My Aunt is by no means well off. Turns out my Aunt didn't want me to know she was paying for it. My parents have no money.
Ex should be ashamed of himself that other people are supporting his obligations.
Miss H, these people see no shame nor wrong in anything they do. In their minds, they are entitled to whatever they want and they have no responsibilities. I would drop the hammer on him hard and ask for an increase in support, have no sympathy and take all you can! What does your attorney say about asking for an increase? He really tipped his hand when he said the OW is a full time student, he just admitted he was paying for everything, therefore, he couldn't have taken a cut in pay.
