Mind: Yeah. Pretty sad little guy. Well, both guys. Some people's worthless, pathetic stbxH's don't deserve the title of "father". I wonder if it can be revoked before Father's Day.
This is really, for a mom, about as bad as it gets. I'm laying in bed next to S10 who is just sobbing, stll at midnight. He just wants to know where his Daddy is.
(((Mindfull))) so awful. As they lose their innocence, we lose ours too and realize on a gut level that we can`t protect them
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
I guess I don't know what is going to happen with divorce papers.
I do know one thing... I will get through this for my kids and me, with respect, dignity and a renewed soul. I will have a new ability to love wholly. And, I will thrive.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I won't bother repeating everyone's OMG how awful posts. We know, and you know, how horrible and unacceptable H's actions were.
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Keep the above foremost in your mind. You can and will do exactly as you describe above.
I don't have any good pointy shoes to join in the kicking, but I do have plenty of hiking boots.
Reach out to your friends. Get the support you need. You are the one behaving with dignity and class here, and everyone in your family and circle knows that.
Mindfull, I am sorry to hear that your H freaked out and was so selfish to explode in that way with your kids and family. Thank goodness you are such a smart, awesome and caring mom that the kids will be able to be comforted by you. Thank God you had been preparing your ducks so you will be in a strong position to deal with your H legally. (((MF)))
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
I got your message this morning and now finally have a chance to catch up...Seems your Mother's Day sucked as much as mine and I am so sorry my friend... You know where I am if you need anything...
I wonder if your H and my H got together last week and decided to make sure our day would be ruined...And if course in front of all the kids...They suck...
Now I need to update my thread so the rest of DB knows what I am talking about...
(((((((HUGS))))))))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
