SA - Thank you - Juvenile...that was the first thing that came to my mind as well.
DG - Thanks for the cheers
Nothing much to report today, It will be a quiet weekend...no drama
H picked up D this morning, we just said hi & bye to each other and that's it. It's about 5hr drive to where they are going and D is driving. I will text her to see if they arrived OK, but other then that I'll leave them be. D was grumpy this morning saying again that she doesn't want to go, but I think that she will get into it. This is actually very good that they are spending some time together...they really need to reconnect and hopefully talk about few things.
(((group hug)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
I hope you had lots of nice things organised while your D is away and that your weekend is ok?
I'm not sure how old your D is but my D's of 21 and 19 have very little patience with their dad. They don't like what he has become and how he treats me or them. There are lots of bridges to build eventually.
Nothing much to report. Pretty quiet weekend. Stained the fireplace surround and did some housework...I know exciting, but it needed to be done.
Went to a party last night. That was lots of fun...lots of wine tasting . Did meet a new single friend (girl). We really hit it off and will start playing tennis together. It was interesting to talk to someone who is single (after 2 failed marriages) and happy....
Haven't heard from D or H. Hopefully they are OK. I expect them back later tonight.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Sounds like you had a nice weekend. It is great that you met a 'single and happy' new friend. I really need to find a single gal pal to do things with. All my friends are married and busy with families. Oh well, after school is out in a couple weeks, I'll make that a GAL project. lol
Thank you SA - I know what you mean, all of my friends are married as well.
WH & D are back now. D rushed in all excited and started to show me pictures from the trip and what daddy had bought her...D said that they had good time. I was feeling some jealousy and anger with my H that he robbed me of that time that they had together, time that we would have spent before together...as a family.
He unloaded the car and actually put everything away, then he came to see me and asked "Do you want me to tell you about the trip?" I said "If you want to" and he replies "I will only if you want me to" ???? Obviously he wants to tell me so I said OK.
He was very animated and excited telling me what a great place it was what they did and on and on. He looked so happy and rested. I was only nodding and listening while keeping busy making myself some tea. I didn't encourage any more talk and he left.
That's all...I'm OK, telling myself that they went away without me before the bomb and I was happy for them, so I shouldn't feel upset now...staying detached.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Mila, 2 failed marriages and I am happier than ever. It's nice to be with someone who wants to be with me (myself)!!!
Remember, you will be okay either way. NEVER again will you define yourself by whether or not you have a man in your life. You are complete and happy with or without him. Only then can you have that amazing relationship.
This past year has been all about me and I love it! Make this YOUR year and figure out what you like, want, etc....
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
And, if you decide to go the single route, you'll be amazed at the new friendships you will cultivate.
I have the most amazing group of friends (male and female) that only a year ago I could have dreamt about. Especially female....I found the adult girlfriends I was looking for my whole life. It's possible; I'm living proof.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
