wow norse....your wife is disgusting....sorry....but I know how things can change so quick and how you can look at your spouse and wonder where the hell they went?!!
I feel so bad what you've been through..as I was reading I kept thinking...damn maybe I don't have it so bad after all. I don't know how you got through that
Keep us updated on how you are doing.
Hugs! Luv
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
What do you see as the common concepts between DB and Sport Psychology?
DB has made me a better coach.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Funny you should say that, Coach, because I always thought that coaching made me a better DB'er.
Puppy
And visa-versa. Nyuk, Nyuk, Nyuk.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I think one of the biggest crossovers between sports psych and DB is the idea of staying focused on the process and principle rather than the outcomes. It helped me tremendously as an athlete, and it's been helpful in dealing with the soon-to-be ex's behaviors.
think one of the biggest crossovers between sports psych and DB is the idea of staying focused on the process and principle rather than the outcomes.
I always thought that was why our "Coach" was so good at what he does.....(give us advice)!
Thank you for the update. In spite of what's happened, you sound good, strong, and determined. You are a good father. Your boys will be blessed b/c of you.
Take care of yourself.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Just thought I'd post because I'm needing some emotional support. Seems like everything financially is falling apart around me as a result of my STBX's choices and behaviors. I'm paying for everything-she doesn't have any bills or financial obligations, and also paying large amounts of spousal support. My accountant says I made some mistakes in withholding for my business, and now I'm on the hook for 30K in IRS money. Lawyers, accountants, bookkeepers, IRS, the bills wont stop, and I'm sitting here in a hotel that has become my home, feeling like the financial outflow won't stop, wondering what part I played in bringing my life to this point.
Tomorrow is my oldest son's ninth birthday, and I'll get to have him and his brother for the weekend, which I'm thankful for. It'll be nice to see him happy, to take him to a movie, etc., but the other side of it is an incredible loneliness that comes from trying to shelter him from my failed marriage to his mom while I'm falling apart inside.
That's my vent. I don't want to wallow in feeling sorry for myself. Just overwhelmed by these financial issues and the upcoming final round of the divorce hearings.
I think I'll read something uplifting tonight. My best to all on these boards who are going through this same ordeal.
You have great earning potential - moonlight, take someones call, get out of the hotel, make a payment plan with the IRS, liquidate some holdings. Focus on the process. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
