My game has changed from WAW to EA/PA HELP!!

[kenmoore14217]

Fantastic job CD. You're paving the way for some of us newbies. Keep it going!

[CD Bear]

Thanks for the support!!

OM's stb and I went back and forth by Berry
and email til almost two. She was calming down quickly but the adrenalin wouldn't let her sleep. I'm feeling it this morninm. Kind of feel hung over.

I actually laughed out loud when she sent "He just changed his Msgr Status to FML. Do you know that one?" I told that W uses it all the time
(for those unfamiliar- F#%k My Life)

So he's clearly feeling the heat and worrying.

But, oddly, I've seen NOTHING from W.

STB's thinking 'Since he does nothing but lie, maybe she doesn't know' I can"t count on it but that would be hilarious. he lies to W, too.

Worrying piece is STB says he's coming back Saturday, not Sunday as I understood from W. I have her GPS set to email me if she moves so I'll know but it mat wrench my plan.

I am planning to moive all my non-esential possessions out Saturday. However, I've invited family over Saturday so if she see's their vehicles it's unlikely she'd even try coming in. Unless the rage is overwhelming, But then I'd have witnesses.

Could be a wild few days.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

The objective of your efforts in this case was infidelis interruptus.

Accomplished.

You don't have to convince anyone of anything, CD. You KNOW. She KNOW. OM KNOWS. They can lie and spin all they want. Knowledge is power.

Greek

Correct. As I stated previously, two separate, very distinct steps, each with their own sets of goals and tactics:

- infidelitus interruptus, to ruin their weekend hook-up;

- expose to key others, and confront cheating wife when she gets back.

Yes, mission accomplished on the first one!

Puppy

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Thanks.

I wanna get her timeline to fill mine in.

C'mon, CD, from what you posted yesterday how "filled in" do you need to get? You have damned near a perfect-DNA match already!

She's a liability. Arm's length. She's France: an ally, but one you need to keep an eye on, 'lest she go wobbly on you.

Puppy

[TimeHeals]

She's a liability. Arm's length. She's France: an ally, but one you need to keep an eye on, 'lest she go wobbly on you.

Naw, she's China: a possible threat, and she's costing you $$$.

France gave us the Statue of Liberty, and is one of the few countries more stuck on itself than US

[Puppy Dog Tails]

LOL

You're talking Old France. I loooove Old France! TJ's France.

[CD Bear]

Both very good points.

Thank you for the objectivity.

I have tons of stuff. ANd though some details are sketchy, I'm not required to show W anything.

So now the inevitable confrontation looms.

And I've forgotten the objectives of that.

Get her out? (and change the locks)
Tell her I'll get Sep Papers done up ASAP.
Until the A is over, we have nothing to talk about except D

And I need the two scripts-

Don't blame me for exposure. YOU had the A
And the letting go/your decision/etc

I don't know if I want to bomb her with the full custody thing. DOn't know if I could or even can. I'll find the wording for 'every second weekend" (Perhaps supervised visitaion.access)

I'm not going soft here. Just need some re-focus

[Puppy Dog Tails]

More later on all of this, CD, but for now I highly doubt your L will say you can change the locks. Isn't the house jointly in her name?

You can ASK her to leave, and you can TELL her to leave, but I doubt you can MAKE her leave.

Puppy

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I don't know if I want to bomb her with the full custody thing. DOn't know if I could or even can.

Yeah, let's discuss this one. I'm normally not ever in favor of tipping your legal hand. Legal moves are best just DONE -- not TALKED ABOUT AHEAD OF TIME, where it only serves to forewarn them.

Puppy

[CD Bear]

Understood. We have two days to figure it out.

I'm goig to call the lawyer I talked to and see if she will draft the agreement my way or if she advises mediator could do the same.

I'm sure i want to call her aunt but I don't want to if her mom or she is there. And I'm not sure how to do it.

I could call under the pretext of bringing D next weekend?