It's a study though, so it's easy to "say" you'd be interested in pursuing. Otherwise, we can classify 90% of the women in the survey as tramps willing to destroy an existing relationship for their own "needs."
even so .. i'm not interested in men who are already involved in a romantic relationship.
i do think it's more of an ego thing or just the thrill of the chase or to know that "i still got it". but once that feeling goes away, you move on to the next?
I was struck by the term FEAR earlier. I believe Puppy had this great acronym.
False Evidence About Reality
Another interesting thing I noticed about fear in MY working on myself, is that unlike NOW where we are trying to work TOWARD something (our M, our S, our family, our core selves, etc), fear in your life is a motivation AWAY FROM.
i.e. Your actions are ruled by AWAY from fear (any direction) as opposed to TOWARD "something" (specific direction)
I found that interesting.
Just gotta find the solution to it.
Obviously correcting the "False evidence" is key but I need to find out how to do that without over analyzing everything.
Nope. Just pointing out that you are preoccupied with another thing, and you are probably not sitting in the same position as a single woman who is answering the survey.
Now, if you answered this same way as single and unencumbered emotionally, then I'd say, well you are the in the 10%. As things stand..., I wouldn't think of you as single myself.
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Just pointing out that you are preoccupied with another thing, and you are probably not sitting in the same position as a single woman who is answering the survey.
i consider myself single now. and even as a single woman, i am not interested in a man who is already in a romantic relationship. for me, it's a personal issue. i understand why people do it but just not my thing.
So the door is closed on reconcilliation? You have moved on?
I haven't kept up with your thread lately.
my last post pretty much sums up where i am at mentally.
but i have been asked if i was single, and i answer with a 'yes, i am'. i haven't worn my ring in three months now.
however, i follow the vets advice here. both allen a and puppy have said that i wasn't ready for dating yet. and i'm not. so single but not interested.
