That is why I have been trying just to call instead of going back and forth via text or email, because at times things are unclear. I was going to ask you again if you would go to parental counseling, so that we can effectively communicate and parent consistently
"I can understand why you feel we should go to a parental counseling, I can handle communicating and parenting. If there is something on your mind then ask, I will answer unless I think it is none of your business. I agree that we need to be consistent. I will only use your personal e-mail from now on. Here is what I think about the furniture, household goods _________________________. Here is my proposal on the finances __________________. The mediator can meet on _______________ or ________________. Which day is best for you?"
Lead.
^^^ This...in an email. Greek
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OK sent the email out to her just now. I did add a few lines though. I don't think they will construe the meaning.
Here's what I sent:
Quote:
I can understand why you feel we should go to a parental counseling, I can handle communicating and parenting. If there is something on your mind then ask, I will answer unless I think it is none of your business. I agree that we need to be consistent. For the most part I have continued to follow the schedule we were using before. We both know the rules.
As for D5, I have told her that me and mommy will not be getting back together but we both love her. I have been telling her to enjoy the time she has when she's with us.
I will only use your work e-mail from now on and copy your personal account .
I have no problem with the furniture that was giving to you that are antiques. I do want the food processor and blender since you already have the Kitchen aid mixer. With my new found hobby of cooking I use them often.
I already gave you my proposal for the finances. I have a copy of that email on case you erased it.
As for the mediator I am available on Saturday morning 8/28 until noon and on Saturday 9/12 all day.
Which day works best for you?
Let's see what develops
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