"I have always admired how you can put a outfit together."
"You sure can make a pair of shoes look sexy."
"Only you could make a black dress look that stunning."
You mean to tell me there's men out there that actually say things like this to their wives?
Yes! Greek
Again, this points to what I said about women finding men in relationships attractive. Who wouldn't want to date a guy like Coach? Or Puppy? However the key is, someone LIKE them. Cause they are already taken.
You mean to tell me there's men out there that actually say things like this to their wives?
Originally Posted By: Greek
Yes! Greek
Well. I gotta say. That makes me sad. Oh! Well no, I mean Happy for you Greek - sorry - truly I am. Just sad for my sitch. I always figured that never hearing compliments like that was kind of normal once you got married. Between that and a few other things going on...makes me wonder why I'm still trying so hard.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
FMV, what you need to remember is that Coach and Puppy (and some others I'm sure) are HERE and already been through "the enligtening process" so it's now part of them. they SEE the need for it. May nothave recognized it as much or at all before they got here.
I wouldn't dicount the effect of "enlightening". And your H hasn't "seen" that light yet. May never. But.....
Words of Affirmation! Maybe your H doesn't realize (just as some men earlier in this thread) how important they are to you?
Thanks ris, but yah. He does. I've told him; I've written him a letter about it; we've even both taken the LL test. He knows. He just doesn't want to tell me.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
FMV, what you need to remember is that Coach and Puppy (and some others I'm sure) are HERE and already been through "the enligtening process" so it's now part of them. they SEE the need for it. May nothave recognized it as much or at all before they got here.
I know CD. Thanks. Anyways this is bumming me out. Gotta go. Take care. FMV.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
FMV, what you need to remember is that Coach and Puppy (and some others I'm sure) are HERE and already been through "the enligtening process" so it's now part of them. they SEE the need for it. May nothave recognized it as much or at all before they got here.
I wouldn't dicount the effect of "enlightening". And your H hasn't "seen" that light yet. May never. But.....
This is correct. In our case, it took a bold move to help my H 'hear' what I'd been trying to communicate (ineffectively) to him for many years. Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
In my quest of learning what attracts women, today I found out that a man's shoes are the number one piece of clothing women look at to determine a mens sense of stlye.
Come to think of it, I had a W aproach me a few months ago b/c of the boots I was wearing. True story.
I've heard this as well.
I've heard it as well many times, both noticed by women and in the business/corporate world. Often overlooked/not given a thought by many men: worn out, scuffed, unpolished, etc. It's a sign of either laziness or paying attention to every detail.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
