Call the 800 # at DB, tell them you need help. They will know emergency resources to call in your area.
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M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Allow yourself to be scared for a little. It's okay to let it out. You're in a bad spot, no doubt. Then, put your game face on. You're not out of time yet. I know you have been looking for work. I know good jobs, any jobs, are hard to come by in this economy. You can find a way. You will find a way.
Don't give up. It may be the current reality of your sitch, but that doesn't mean that it is all said and done.
There is really not much to say. I have not given up, but I am just being honest about what is happening. My kids will be okay no matter what I am sure. My W is not the best mother or person, but the kids will have somewhere to call home. That is all I can really ask for right now.
I am going to keep trying to find a way, but if it does not happen, I will somehow be okay, and I will not break the promise I made to my D to be near her even if I am homeless.
Thank you for the prayers and the support you have given me since being here.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097
CA is a community property state. You have information and that information is your W is moving out very soon. File for divorce so you can at least get 50% of what the two of you have (including her retirement account). Yes, that might mean 50% of the credit card debt but it also means 50% of the other stuff. If you only have one vehicle that will need to be addressed and IMO you getting money instead of the car would make the most sense.
Now you know what is going to happen you need to do something. There is no more time to buy and you have all the info you need.
What sort of jobs are you applying for? Are you not qualified to do them? Are your interviewing skills not well polished?
I understand you are looking for a career but how about a job just to have some money for now? You mentioned where in L.A. you live before (I remember but won't say so your privacy is not violated) and I just went to indeed.com and typed in that location. There are TONS of listings for jobs (and no, none are great or glamorous but they are jobs that provide income).
You still have time to hussle and make this a doable situation. Let us help you but you really are going to have to dig deep and rely less on hope and positive thoughts and more on firm and concrete action.
LSG - I just e-mailed an old friend of mine in L.A. and asked him if he had any contacts - his job keeps him pretty well connected across several industries. He might be able to point you in a new direction - I will keep you posted.
I'm kind of nervous to post my e-mail address here but I will once I find out what he says.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
LSG - I just heard from my friend - he wants you to e-mail him but I am unsure how to get the address to you.
I am on the alt. My initials are NH, I am friends with lots of divorce busting people, I have blonde hair and in my facebook photo I am wearing a yellow shirt. Is that enough to go on?
And you BETTER love me because my "friend" is my old high school boyfriend who made me cry in 10th grade!
LSG - my friend will be leaving work at 5pm today (maybe a bit earlier) so if you read this please try and get in touch with me or at least post here. I'm going to walk my dog but I'll come back and check in a bit. He said if he can get in touch with you today he can see what he can find out tonight so he can get back with you tomorrow or the weekend.
When you talk to him tell him his blue Mustang wasn't as cool as he thought (but get the job first, lol!)
