Lots going on with my ex. The texts keep coming, dumb stuff, nothing significant.
Yesterday, my father was over at my house fixing something in the garage. Ex pulled up at the end of the driveway and stayed there for a few minutes and then left. It was around lunch time and ex knows I am usually home on that day.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Curiosity killed the cat. The man is curious to know what you are doing. He might be having a moment clarity....continue doing what you've been doing and do not allow him to draw you back into his drama. You've doing well w/o him in your space.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thanks Snodderly for the advice. Another weird thing happened. He dropped the kids off in the driveway, got out and started wiping off his car for the next 15 minutes (in my driveway).
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I had to chuckle...he should be able to see his reflection in the shine now! You really have to laugh about this crazy behavior. He's absolutely dying to know what you are doing since you have very little contact w/him. Another thing, he's hoping that if he is around, you'll begin talking to him again. Remember...they like all kinds of attention whether it is bad or good.
Continue has you have been doing!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I ignored his behaviors, let my daughters in the house and then closed the door while he buffed his car. Just when I thought I have experienced everything this comes along.
My plan is to just continue to live my life the best I know how.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Yesterday when I left for work, I looked in my rearview mirror and saw ex driving behind me. He waved at me and I waved back. He seemed so sad and lost. It is moments like these that are so sorrowful and full of what ifs.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Friday coming home from work I saw a Covenant Transport Truck.!
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
