With the bomb, divorce and life thereafter I've learned the importance and need for boundaries, listening to my gut. Keeping the Four Agreements as a working model helps immensely... Pay attention. Do my best. Never intentionally cause harm....it's mine to own.
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Keep doing what's getting you in a better place. Self care is your best friend. Feeling all those emotions is tough, working through them is great. Keep seeing folks who are supportive, who can listen. I found seeing an excellent counselor helped immensely in processing all this fun stuff.
And I am still going through it...just not as much. And I backslide when I have to deal with him.. but each time less so. And I'm the one who makes my own misery, not him. He's just trying to check off something from a past life he wants nothing to do with.
Keep posting. Keep growing.
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