Pin, she has asked for space so give it to her! Do a 180 and quit being so chivalrous towards her and be more Clark Gable in Gone with the Wind. Although, you two remain under the same roof show her how it would feel with you gone. Be spontanous with your girls! I recently drove 100 m to go indoor parachute jumping with my two boys...I didn't plan it we just did it and that was half of the fun!
Then take your D's to the equestrian show on sat and leave your W and her emotional baggage home. Don't offer to take her let her groval on her own! Enjoy your life with your kids and stop walking on egg shells around her!
Wise advise.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Then take your D's to the equestrian show on sat and leave your W and her emotional baggage home. Don't offer to take her let her groval on her own! Enjoy your life with your kids and stop walking on egg shells around her!
Wise advise.
Yep. The eggshells start to feel like broken glass after a while.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
In many ways WAW behavior for some reason is like teenage behavior, not adult behavior. How do you get a teen to grow up while maintaining a great relationship with them?
Example: "...I said, "Don't be rude to me like that,"..." Apparently this is a pattern: she throws a tantrum, you say this because you feel reallyl hurt and then later she apolgizes. How can you respond differently to break this pattern without telling her what to do so that she now feels she has more "space"?
