General Info For Newcomers

[dbmod]

It's a mind-set. It's the turning point when they are working with you, when they are interested in you, interested in rebuilding the relationship.

[NTGR]

thanks so much dbmod. I really appreciate what you say. I feel like I know where I'm at but again my patience wears thin... I'm working on it.

[sgctxok]

Hi NTGR--


I understand about patience wearing thin. Hang in there!

sg

[NTGR]

SO I backslide a bit this AM. My H recieved a Yahoo IM at 3:30 AM. He said it was a SPAM. I didn't beleive it as I never heard of such a thing on IM. After a smart-a$$ comment by me he insisted on me looking at his phone to see the latest messages. Well he was right, I was wrong. I am upset with myself but also defensive. Being trust is so precarious I almost feel justified. Do I apolozie or just let it go?

[sgctxok]

Hi NTGR, I started a thread for you in Newcomers, that's a good place for you.

[Blessed2BeADad]

Why do I have a lock by my post? I'm not able to piston my stitch but able to post on others... I guess I'm locked out, but why?

[MrBond]

I think your thread was too long. It doesn't mean you're banned. Just start another one.

[dbmod]

That's correct. A little while ago, I liked all recent threads on newcomers that were over 100 posts. If you need help linking, let me know.

[hope2011]

Can someone please explain the moderation set up? Posts aren't up after 2 days, threads staying on page 3 or 4. Is it moderated or automated? Am I doing something wrong? I can't find any posts on this so I thought I'd ask as I'm confused and see others confused too. I know it takes a lot of work to run forums (I run them for work so I do know) so believe me, I am not complaining at all!

[dbmod]

Newbies posts are fully moderated and generally approved within 24 hours. I do not understand right now while some of them are staying on later pages, we are working to try to figure that out.

Are your forums UBB?