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Good morning Virginia. I am emailing you to see if I can get my account restored so that my posts are allowed to show up immediately after I submit them.

I know that I screwed up by violating one of the board policies 2 weeks ago, but it won't happen again.

I appreciate your help with this.

Thanks - Denver_2010


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Dbmod - Do you have any idea if my account will ever be reverted back to how it was before it was sent to purgatory? Just wondering if you even know if Virginia has gotten my emails or messages?

Can I get a little love for my posts tonight? I could really use some advice and feedback.

Thank you.

Denver


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I don't know. But you don't have to ask me to approve posts. I check and approve whenever I can...and try to do so in the order in which they are received. I noticed some of your posts are 'bumps'. I think this backfires when you are on full moderation, sets the threads back.

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Thanks dbmod.


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I hate to say it, but I am having the same troubles as Denver. If in fact dbmod is the only person out there to approve posts, I can see how that can be pretty overwhelming. Sorry, dbmod.

It seems as though my posts are taking 24-48 hours to be approved and posted. By the time they do post, they are at least a few pages deep. This has been very frustrating, as I have only been able to give bits of my story every few days with little response. I am not sure if my case is an exception. Many other posts have hundreds of views and replies.

I am unable to send personal messages to the moderators or admins to ask for assistance.


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bad news and good news:

I apologize, I have had some time limitations lately, some due to not feeling well.

The good news: we have a blizzard coming. If the internet works, you'll get approved more quickly.

Sparks--all newbies are on full moderation. With a good history, they come off full moderation.


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More good news... Denver's long national nightmare is over! The purgatory is over! My posts show immediately again...
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I'm thankful as well. I was going to ask for overtime pay!


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Made me laugh dbmod! Thanks... needed that today.


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Denver word to the wise, posting personal info will get you moderated if not banned. So, just be careful.



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