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Originally Posted By: Greek
This is correct. In our case, it took a bold move to help my H 'hear' what I'd been trying to communicate (ineffectively) to him for many years.
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Hi Greek, if it's not too personal, might I ask what that bold move was? If it's too personal though, by all means, I understand.


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Originally Posted By: Greek
This is correct. In our case, it took a bold move to help my H 'hear' what I'd been trying to communicate (ineffectively) to him for many years.
Greek

Hi Greek, if it's not too personal, might I ask what that bold move was? If it's too personal though, by all means, I understand.


I left and filed. Then my DH (dear husband) heard me.
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Just getting back from GAL and noticing all the banter brought about by mentioning a pair of shoes!


The belt was number two on the list!.....................


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Then I have to try to find the original thread and read it.

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Attractive

When you support what is important to your woman.

That's why agreeing works and letting them go works.


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
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this needs to be bumped up. read the first post. over and over and over again.

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How to build confidence -

Do something.

Take action.

Achieve your goals.

You get to write your life story.

Be wise.


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bump.

newbies should read this as well. first post and some interesting gems in between.

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Thanks Dumped.

great thread for the newbies.

do you have the one one boundaries?
I recall that being a wealth of knowledge too.
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