I am so sorry 2Step. You and I have been together on this over the past few months. I am still here for you, man. I do want to say that Brian is right, take a few days, hell, a few weeks, before you make any decisions on how you want to move forward. This does NOT need to be the end unless that is what YOU decide.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
2step, Buddy, there is nothing that I can say about your sitch that you have not already heard. So, instead of talking about your sitch, I want to talk about you. I want to talk about the man I have come to know as 2step. 2step is a leader. 2step is a thinker. 2step is an innovator and a protector of his friends and his marriage. Every group needs a "sergeant-at-arms" who looks out for the best interest of all involved. A person who serves as a "rock" when the bullets begin to fly. You are that person to the BITS, 2. You have been our wisdom, our support, our foundation. Now, go be that person for yourself. Be that rock for 2step. Yes, take a couple of days, regroup and decide what is best for you. Then go after it. Whatever you choose, we will be here for you and will support you all the way. You are a giant among men. Hold your head high, buddy. She can't do anything to you that you can get up from. NOTHING!!!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
I am so sorry and I wish there was something to take away the pain. I imagine that you would rather break a bone. I know I would. I have only a prayer to offer for you, and my deepest sympathy, and these words:
"The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." Kahlil Gibran
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
Look at the responses you received on this post. Look at how many people care about you and actually genuinely care about 2 step the man. FOBD stated some really nice things about you and although I havent gotten to know you on the level as some of the bits; you have always given me sage advice and helped me through.
Its too bad that your Wife cant look at this board and see how much you have changed and how people look forward to you responses. How could she seriously walk away from that.
As True gritter says, its only over when you want it to be. She will come out of whatever she is going through and I have talked to some people that have gone through divorce and they sometimes really regret it.
If I was laying Vegas odds on this, I would bet alot of money that your wife WILL regret this someday. Will she be LUCKY enough to have you interested enough to giver her another chance when that happens.
I pray that whatever happens, it will be the best for 2step.
All the best buddy.
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BITS M-46 W-42 M-16y T-19 y s10 s15 BombDec.19/09 Sep-F16/10 Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10 Recon July 5/10 PA foundOut- Oct 30/10 Mental HospNov/10 moved out Nov/10 Leg Sep Mar 15/11
I am thinking about you and praying for you. You really handled yourself well and be proud of yourself for that. We will be here for you to help you through this.
You are not alone.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤
