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Hi CW. I haven't read all of your thread, but are you divorced? Your signature says that he filed. He still came home after this?

Tad


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Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
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CW - what a huge news!!!!!!!!!!...my thoughts are with you and I hope that you will able to get through this together with your H and find happiness as husband and wife again and keep your family together...as they say the hardest work starts now. Keep your expectations low...be open to forgiveness and keep us posted.

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OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
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Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
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I will be praying for you and your husband. I am glad your house did not catch on fire!


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Tad-yes my H filed over a year ago. The court date has been continued several times. Our next court date is June 3...will see what happens over the next couple of weeks!

Mila-thankyou for your thoughts! I hope so too!

Lorie-thankyou for your prayers! I am so thankful that my house did not catch on fire either! I am also thankful that H was here! I love your sig line!


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HI CW, Ive not posted to you before so I wanted to say Hi smile

Im very happy that your H has come home - it gives me hope.

I hope you had a lovely mothers day.

BTW Id love some advice on how you have been dealing with OW. H's & OW also work together.

Thanks and goodluck.


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CW, my friend, you know how I feel.

I wish you and your beautiful family all the best!

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How wonderful CW. I am so pleased for you. It shows, from your H anyway, that they do think about us when they're away.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
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Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you C-Dub.

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CW,

I am so happy to hear of your decision.

A warning...there will still be ups and downs, especially with OW withdrawl...

Be as patient as possible with you both for a while...

You both have some major emotions to deal with...

It is possible though...

Keeping you in my prayers and thoughts...

You know where I am. smile



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All the best CW.We're all here to support you in this transition

Cas

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