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Have a lovely time in florida visiting your sun Trusting, so long we been at this darn game its interesting to see some light in your sitch, take care now xxxx

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Have a wonderful trip to visit your son Trusting!


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Trusting,
Enjoy your trip to Florida. You need a much deserved break.

Sounds like he is starting to grow up. It will be interesting to see how it all plays out in the end.


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Having a great time with my son in FL. Thank u everyone for your support. I don't know where this road is leading me, but I will enjoy my life no matter what. My son and I are so close and we have come out of this mess better people. Ex continues to communicate and responds well without anger or spewing. I am just taking one day at a time with minimal expectations because I know no matter what me and the kids are ok.


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Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
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Trusting,
Enjoy your time w/your son. I hope that you are getting some much deserved rest as well. One day at a time is all we can ask for!


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Today was daughter's first day of school - 1st grade.
Ex dropped her off at my house. He backed into the driveway and hit a big pile of mulch that was there. When he got out of the car he was nervous and sweating. He could not leave fast enough. I could tell he was so uncomfortable. He did not even stay to see daughter off on the bus. I tell you I can't wait for the day when ex just behaves like a normal person. I can accept that our marriage is over, but normalcy would be nice. He acted deathly afraid of me.....

He texted me later and said he would drop off daughter on Sat. This is very unlike him because he has avoided coming to my house for the longest time.


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Sorry, had to laugh at the mulch part! smile

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I know it was quite funny....


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Trusting,
At least it was a bag of mulch and not a tree or curb! Too funny!

How did the little one make out today at school?


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Snod,
It was a huge pile of mulch about 7 yards worth. You could not miss it if you tried, but he managed to drive right into it. My little girl had a great day. I just wish her dad would have participated more, but oh well.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
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Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
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PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11

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