Yes Mish, I think love is so powerful that it also becomes one of our greatest fears and we sometimes protect ourselves to the extreme because it can hurt so bad. It's both the best and the worst, all in one!
What a fitting finale! I was just on FB and noticed that MM had a new profile picture, I hadn't "unfriended" her and she hadn't "unfriended" me. So, here's a lovely picture of her sitting with her arms around a nice white guy! UNFRIEND. How lucky can one guy get...to be rid of her. Unbelieveable.
Sorry Wii - I'm sure that hurts. And I'm suspecting she was probably "involved" somewhat all along. I know you believe otherwise but I honestly think she thought of you as a friend and enjoyed your attention. Not the message you were receiving and maybe she should have been clearer.
I still think it is time to reread your thread and see what the rest of us were saying early on. Go slow. Relax. Don't introduce someone new to your kids or let your ex know about them. And keep them off FB!
I also hope you have a good w/e. This will pass quickly but you know how much you enjoyed having someone in your life. Go find someone who will appreciate the great guy that you are!
Actually, I think this was her client that she works with. The pose doesn't strike me as romantic. But, to put up a profile picture like that two days afterwards and telling me you want to be my friend, this tells me otherwise. I don't need any more surprises from this lady. When you've been cheated on in the past that never leaves you and when someone does something which, in the least is highly insensitive, and at the worst leaves the inference that she was involved with someone else (which I honestly don't believe is the case, she had no time first of all!) then I don't want them anywhere near me. Time for severe damage control. I left work half an hour early tonight because all that hurt from the past betrayal just flooded back...no more.
Ok, time to regroup. So sorry that this ended the way it did. I suppose it is time to take a step back and see what can be learned. It is going to smart for a while, I won't lie but you will find yourself willing to put yourself back out there in no time.
Get a bowl of ice cream and we can virtually watch a movie tonight.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I'm betting it is not about you. I have friends on FB who change their photos and status all the time. If you don't think it's a romantic partner than why worry about it.
Refocus is right. Kat has the right idea. Get some ice cream and a good movie. For me - Friday nights is Dateline and it has NOTHING to do with dating. LOL!
Don't worry ladies, I got football to watch tonight! I was actually feeling good today until that profile shot hit me square between the eyes. I said to my friend/co-worker who I told "is there anything else this woman could possibly do to me this week!" I went out to do my floor shift and the supervisor looks at me and says "Why do you suddenly look sick" Oh boy. Finally, after half an hour of walking around like one of those shell shocked extras in a war movie I asked to go home. Enough for one day! Hey, I will rise again...and date men. Actually me and the guys were talking today at lunch about what the idea date would be and we concluded it would be one that excluded women! Sorry ladies, we're a bitter bunch of males lol. Gotta go eat Sushi now.
