I am so glad they are doing well. That is my number one worry, the impact of the ML'er craziness.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
My ex recently told me that I still got it and that he wanted to lie in bed naked with me. As my eyeballs bulged outta my head... I replied that we had been married and we could have done that any time if we were still married, things were different. Especially now that he was in a relationship.
How can you ask the person that you dumped for sex?
I thought of this one last night. When ex was in the throes of his soulmate. He told me that he was going to be with her for the rest of his life, but he would SEE ME IN HEAVEN.
WOW I SAID, I DON'T THINK GOD LIKES ADULTERY AND HEAVEN MIGHT NOT BE WHERE YOU GO.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I would love to hear the truth now.....Perfect turned into nightmare
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Forward, That is a really good point. The midlifers worship us in the beginning of our relationship and then devalue us at the end. My ex always put me on a pedestal, I loved it but always knew that there was something very dysfunctional about it. It was what he needed to see at the time. A distortion of the truth....... The distortion continues until they wake up, if they do.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
