Hi, how long does it normally take for your post to show?- I just started... I didn't see my post & re-posted my story. I don't want to annoy anyone or have a duplicate. Thanks
(F.K.A. Broken422)
US 40's M 17,T 19 2 BOYS 13,16 Divorced 4/2012 11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D
"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Well to start with it seems to take forever. I waited three days for some of mine to show. I filled in the waiting time by adding to the thread as I thought of new stuff.
Hi, how long does it normally take for your post to show?- I just started... I didn't see my post & re-posted my story. I don't want to annoy anyone or have a duplicate. Thanks
Have some patience, something you need to learn in DB'ing
After so many posts you will be off moderation. Post smaller amounts until then. Have faith that they will show up.
While you are waiting read other peoples stories, and some of the resources here, you are not the first one or the last to go through this.
Sometimes I post needing some advice and comfort but my post or respond to someone does not show up for several days. I started a thread about 5 days ago and still don't see it. I don't get it.
I am in the same situation. I read that newbies' posts get moderated and it takes more time for them to be seen. At what stage do you get to see your posts more quickly? Thank you 111
