You are so right. He is befuddled and bewildered as to why I have had no response to his up coming nuptuals and his engagement. He keeps hinting about it looking for my reaction. I give him none. He continues to dig his hole deeper and deeper.....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Ex calling my phone today but not leaving any messages. He has not called my phone in ages. He only texts.... I know he is in an aggrevated state so I will not answer unless I know what he wants.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Ex increasingly texting me about stupid stuff like "what time should I pick D7 up from day care"? Lets see, she has been going to the same place for 7 years. The same place he has picked her up for 7 years! D7 informed him last week that she really does not want anymore overnights with him, but he can visit when he wants. He did not take this very well and has not had her for his last 2 day scheduled visit. We will see what happens tonight.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, The man is just crazy. He's desperate to have contact w/you and sounds like he's using every excuse to contact you. Don't take the bait!
Take care of yourself and I'm glad your d told him that she didn't want any more overnighters. Good for her!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Life isn't what he thought it would be. Poor baby. (sob, sob, sob)
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
You guys made me laugh today and I really needed it. My oldest daughter graduated from high school today. After the ceremony ex started texting me, "Where are you?" "We want to do some pictures? WTF.... I really did not feel like seeing him or spending any time with him and his bimbo. Would she be in the picture too? It is almost like he wants all of us to be one happy family. Can someone make him disappear? It was all too weird for me.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Well done our your daughter graduating high school. What you will probably get at some point from xh is that you have a rpoblem with him having an OW. Nothing to do with him.
I the cottage cheese of their brain they do think it should be all OK instead of the terrible mess it has become.
As I have detached totally from my xh, when he wants to be in contact [for a good while he just ran] what I am now getting from him is that I can't cope with him having other relationships. It is never ever anything they might have done.
