MWG, What are you thinking in terms of moving away? It sounds like a difficult situation, to live w/your X. You have certainly had a hard time w/unemployment.
I am sorry to hear that X destroyed R w/at least one child.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
The strange thing is I have very little interaction with X.
It is difficult because of the job situation. I do have some goals in mind. I need to be able to get a job here first, then I can start taking some trips to the midwest which is where I am from and it would be to my hometown. Then you just never know if its meant to be and I can find something there eventually, who knows. My "friend" would love to move out here.
Whatever X had with his daughters it is no longer the same. Both do not have much respect for him. One of them talks to him but not often and the youngest who could care less, she will talk to him but it doesn't amount to much.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I sure did initiate it. I just went out one day and filed the papers, came home and said to him, guess what i filed for divorce. yep i did it and it felt great.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Why is this man living with you after you got divorced? This is crazy, he didn't come around while you guys were married, then you divorced him and he moves in.....?????
We have NOTHING going on. I do not cook or clean for him, I have my own room and my own stuff going on. I am unemployed and this is my ex father in law's house. This house situation is a long story because the other house got foreclosed and ex FIL insisted on getting a house for us to live in. It is up to HIM to legally kick out any one of us.
Ex husband was supposed to get a job and find a place for he and his sick GF.
My plan is once I find a job, I am out of here and maybe out of state.
Sometimes you just can't do what you wanna do and the sad thing is many are having to live this same way who have recently divorced.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, I understand.... I think.... I wasn't saying you guys were doing anything, just it was and is a crazy situation. I think even you would admit its kind of weird how you fought so hard for your marriage and the XH wouldn't come around, then circumstances find you 2 living together. Why did the XH move out with the OW? He lived with her for years.
He moved out of her place because she had to quit work due to illness. What she has is "non of my business" according to him. She had to move in with her daughter. Too bad he could not have gone to be with them.
Yeah it is weird but we have nothing to do with one another at all other than we share a roof. We don't even hang out in the same room..lol!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
