Maybe she just wasn't ready to take this relationship any further. Maybe she used the too nice as a catch all sort of excuse. I really don't know, I have never broken up with anyone.
Regardless, I would evaluate the progress you made in the relationship as well as anything that seemed to come up as an issue. From everything I have read from your posts, youare a great guy and soon I bet you will find your wonderful girl.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Wii - I don't disagree with what you are saying at all and perhaps this is how I am perceived by her. My personality is one of I don't sweat the small stuff and maybe that comes off as caving in on things - I don't know. I am a pick your battles type of guy. She has a very easy going personality and we have similar interests and tastes, so honestly there had not been anything of even a moderate significance that had arisen during our time going out that I had an issue with and which would have resulted in conflict.
Kat may be closer to what is really going on as in one of our conversations she did mention that she had been on her own for 10 years and had gotten used to that. Funny how stereotypically it is guys who are labelled as commitment phobes - leave it to me to fall for a woman who is one.
Five days post dumping and it hasn't really gotten any easier but then again it's only been 5 days. This too shall pass...
Five days is nothing, BA. You're just rising up from the shock of the bomb in that time. Just be good to yourself. Try not to think too much...although I know how truly impossible that can be! Thinking of you, guy
