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Originally Posted By: MrCAS
Well, uR, I have dug out the really crappy stuff I had buried. Most of the other issues seem to pale in comparison. Sometimes I wonder what took me so long to come to this point.

You get there when you are supposed to get there.

Is it the communal help process that makes is so easy to share or had I just hit bottom so hard I had nothing left to lose? Somes I wonder if it really matters. Maybe I just think too much... LOL!

I think it is a little of both. I am a very private person and if someone told me before all this that I would be posting on a forum I would have told them they were crazy. But, I also had reached a point where something had to give. And I hear you on the thinking too much. LOL!

Yes, holy cow dogs. Would "oofdah!" be more to your liking?


Um, no, on the oofdah. I'm from Brooklyn, man. So, what I would say would be censored. Just sayin. wink

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I agree with uR, we get there when we're ready to face what we have to face.


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Yeah. All it took was the looming threat of losing what I held dear to me... No. I have been here before.

I was ready. I never could have done this without you peoples.

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Originally Posted By: MrCAS
I was ready. I never could have done this without you peoples.



We peoples couldnt have helped unless you were ready and willing to do the work. wink

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Cripes, yer gonna make me cry, dammit!


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Cripes, yer gonna make me cry, dammit!


Aww, M, you really are evolving. LOL!

Really, though, you have written about some pretty powerful, tough stuff - and trusted us enough with it.

Ok, now "Cripes" - you sure you lived in New York at one time?:)

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Yahfershure, but I be goin' to da land of da ten towsend lakes, dare, yaknow. I sorta took on da new persona of a Minnesooootan, fershure! Ooofdah!

Yah, me an' Ole be goin' out fer a couple of brewskis later...

My motto... Minnesota nice with a New York attitude...


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Huh? It's all good, M. Just joking around with you. smile

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Yeah, I knew you were uR...

I am kind of feeling funny. I am not angry today. It is a strange feeling not being angry. Not quite sure how to handle it...

So, today, co-owner (the wife of of co-owner) made a couple of comments. Referred to MN and some home stuff along the lines of what she talked about yesterday. I am talking about stuff I have never brought up to either The only way she could have known this stuff is if she read it here and went through my email.

The other owner is a real IT wiz from a previous career. He really knows his stuff. It would not be a stretch to think that information was retrieved from the server.

I would have thought that this would have made me angry but it hasn't. I find it a little pathetic. Very snoopy and invasive. Pretty darn low class. That's on them though.

Trying out my new coping tools... Seems to be pretty slick.


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Ok, for just a minute, I was pisssed. LOL!

That was so not cool of them, M.

As far as handling not being angry - just enjoy it. Kinda neat - right?

You're doing great. Keep going.

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