12/16/2008 Here is what you were talking about from Coach written years ago.
Originally Posted By: Coach
Come on who doesn't like Puppy love?! You brought me out of lurking status. I wish you the best my friend - for you, your family and your wife. I am sure you didn't come to this conclusion easily and therefore you won't have regrets. You are a asset to the board but I understand your need to care for yourself and do some pondering. Thanks again for all the help, support and encouragement you gave me. I am a better man because of the "tribe" here (that's what my W calls us Dbers.)
It's interesting because my W is the one who alerted me to your post (she's a closet DBer now) and said she knew you were important to me here and to check on you.
Take care of yourself Puppy. You are a good man, I appreciate you. You can handle it. Strength and Honor Cheers Coach
I thought of them often after they left the board. Thanks Pup, for letting us hear from you. It is good to know they were still together. They were a very special couple around here.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I have not posted on DB site for a long time, altho I do read along occasionally. I remember Coach and Greek very well, they were an amazing couple. A success story, My condolences to the family and friends
And just a short update.......I need to change my screen name to Sunny.. Life is good, celebrating our 30th anniversary in August, our unofficially adopted daughter just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl....so I'm a grandma now, such fun and love abounds.
I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Coach. My thoughts go out to Greek.
As with puppy my marriage problems pre dated Coach but I read his advice and the man had a gift, I strongly urge men in newcomers seek out his words of wisdom. The man was a legend and helped so many.
God bless you Coach
Daren
Me 39 W 39 D8 S5 Married 13yrs Together 20years EA June 06 Ilyninlwy Jan 07 Seperated Jan 07
I dont post around here anymore. Life gets in the way. I was so sorry to find out what happened. I cant stop thinking of Greek and their children. How tragic. RIP Coach - Greek, my condolences and prayers to you and your family. Stay strong my dear, K
