What? You never have to worry about pursuing your kids.
That's how I read it at first. I think he meant "trying to stay in touch with W while on 3 week trip. Is that pursuing?" I hope he meant that.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
Why don't you let her know what YOU would like to do and then just see if she's available.
fyi we connected folks. But it was good to see how YOU made it happen Luke.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Yes,I am glad we did - thanks 25yearsmlc - your idea of talking to daughter about EE and more is good and will build closeness.
The pursuing question was more at am bugging my college age son by writing short daily messages? He may want or need space away from parents, especially given our difficulties. He sent a short note yesterday - seems fine but busy. Nothing from daughter, who is on a week long school field trip to Germany.
In Newark, on way to Boston - L
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
i agree, texting every day is great. Just keep your expectations reasonable, since they are teens. but i would suggest never question them on why they dont respond, dont make a big deal out of responding or not responding.
mix it up a little, sometimes just a quick hello, sometimes a quick story of something amazing you experienced, or a picture of someone/something. for instance a picture of something in boston, a landmark or a pint of boston beer or some odd-looking street character.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
exactly. They are not "rejecting" you when they are quiet. They are just your kids getting messages from you. It reassures, no matter how they may roll their eyes or sigh. They still like it. And need it.
IT's not the same at all as a spouse
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
