Thanks again F. We have to have our chat again soon. At the moment I am not even home much.....lol. We will meet up one day, I am certain of that. Certainly will never forget the trip that got me here. It really is a journey that we hear at the beginning "you have been given a great gift". It's not until later you realise how great this gift is. Now shopping time.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
I'm so happy reading this. Have known you for almost a year. Where did that year go? You have achieved so much. It's reasurring when there is so much sadness here.
Wow thanks GALbaby. Appreciate your comments. Yes, where did the year go. While out shopping today, the W texted, stating why no reply about the solicitor letter. Anyway, a nice text back stating my solicitor is viewing the letter early in the new year and then added have a lovely xmas and holiday. Don't need to argue or get upset about anything.
Did buy the present: a funny giraffe ceramic, tickets and meal vouchers for the gold class cinema, an 80's hits cd (she loves the 80's) and a baseball cap with the propellor on top. Why the hat you ask? Well for her birthday in March, a friend of ours who flies the Virgin planes also has a helicopter licence. So he is hiring a copter for that day and taking us up. Since the new lady likes to dress the part for the occassion, I told her a hat with a propellor would be part of it. So the present includes: a joke (the hat), slight romantic gift (the voucher for the cinema), something nice that I remember about her (80's music) and a loony gift that can mean something unique to her (the giraffe). All up about $200. But who cares, it is simply so much fun and exciting as well.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Ha ha, got the old comment on the phone last night, "don't you dare buy me a present". Thank goodness I didn't as Santa did.
What I like about DB is how I can be so much more relaxed over things that happen/don't happen. Being Christmas festive time, she is on 2 weeks holidays, we are just starting a relationship and her kids happily go to their dad's every 2nd week. You could think that things aren't going well. I could, the old me, feel very let down if she didn't want to see me one of the days, or didn't contact as much or even get the hint to go. But I simply know that it is a very busy time, she needs to spend holiday time with her kids, the 2nd week the kids are at their dad's and we are building ourselves up to something more. It is great having the better self esteem to not blame yourself or put yourself down for everything that happens.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
That's really good HWA I hope that one day I can get to that point where my self esteem is high up there again Mind you it does help having someone to share your life with
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Yes it does TTD180. This other woman is a very go with the flow type of person, really against my normal self, but it feels right.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
That's good she doesn't seem the type of woman to um and ah about things and say "we'll see!"
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
No, she will just do it, if that is what she wants. A complete opposite.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Merry Christmas all. Another good thing about Australia, we celebrate Christmas before everyone else.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Merry Christmas to you as well HWA Did your lady friend like her gifts?
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I hope that one day I can get to that point where my self esteem is high up there again 