All - I thought it was civil because I was expecting my W to lose it again and not be able to talk with her. No, it was not civil to be insulted, again. Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
Custody...okay that is what I think you heard the most...
let's make it about time with your d asap.
YOU MUST TALK WITH HER, obviously...so, what is it that you want to tell your d?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
And I did get a piece of self-respect back, just by going up and having that talk. As GPYB says, "you can do this!". It just has to be better next time, and my focus has to be boundaries. It's been years, btw, since I lost control and was angry at my W (some insult yet again).
So what I am supposed to do with my passion and my loneliness? I'd love to spend more time with my d15, right now, but she is with W. Shall I just pull her away, a bull in a china shop? She is the only physically present (so no internet) source of human warmth and play I have.
The movie plan got shifted to tomorrow night, and I instead just picked her up last night, but at least we had time together then. It really feels like she is either with W or me, and W has the advantage.
Bond - everyone - I really appreciate your pushing me to do things.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
MLC - I told her that I really like being with her on the way home last night. I do not want to tell her anything about D just now. Perhaps EE though? There is a picture of me from EE with 4 laughing women on my arms (believe it or not). That I love her endlessly?
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
Luke... I was implying that you went in with a question, but did you come out with an answer? Was a move out "date" decided?
I need to catch up on all the comments, so I may be off or late in my question.
BRB, Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
Yeah, the custody thing was a big deal for me. If I lose my d15, that would be horrible. I've been rejected often enough.
Passion: one of my best life experiences was biking from Spain to Italy over a 3 month trip. I am thinking of doing a week's bike trip again, in France, alone, food, culture, landscape, exercise, adventure, good stuff. I just fixed up my old bike this weekend in fact.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
Hi MM - no date was fixed, as this was dependent on finishing the house renovation. I suppose that there is some point at which good enough (my wife is a perfectionist craftsman) will have to do. W was not thinking of moving out during the school year either (she teaches).
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
