Thanks for you support YE21. I see how strongly you feel about the things you are learning in your journey through you situation.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Well no news from W. Mentioned the email to a friend. He came clean to say W told his W had already been hearing from my W 2-3 years ago that she didn't love me anymore...I am moving in the right direction.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Interestingly enough I've heard that W thinks I am involved with an OW and that's why I'm finally standing up for what I think. I'm actually just standing up because its the right thing to do. I've made casual friends with people, but nothing like what she seems to be considering.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Interestingly enough I've heard that W thinks I am involved with an OW and that's why I'm finally standing up for what I think. I'm actually just standing up because its the right thing to do.
Thats the key, you are taking care of yourself and at the beginning of your sitch that seemed weird....now you know thats the appropiate thing to do for Paul despite what she or the world think
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
W came by to move more things out today. She took most of the rest of her clothes. Her closet still has some things in it. I will box them up and send them to her or ask her to get them.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Hi bug. Out with s12 at a hockey game and tailgate party...wearher is great today.. Sooo much fun. I am continuing to keep busy and detach. I did ask W to empty her closet please. Sometimes i chat via text or phone with a new friend. We've had coffee 2x. She is kind and i enjoy visiting with her. She understands where i am in my walk and we have no illusions of rushing into a romance. But its nice to just visit.
Life is calmer this week. I've been dojng some good reading. I see so many things i did early on that made things worse and caused my W to be more disrespectful or distant. I am learning as i go and so thankful foe the support and advice from the group.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
