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I am so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts.


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Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Stay strong!


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S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
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Thanks all for the support. I havr her home now after a stay in ICU and then a brief comittment to a mental health facility. Issues with her mom continue. SHe is strong. She will be ok. Tonight she is scared.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
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Day 3 at home for D16. We went shopping for flowers to brightrn thr gardren. She seems to like idea. I could use some creative touches around thrnyard. I asked my daughters to come up with flowers and colors they liked. The sitch with d16 and W is driing anwedge between them. I hipe.working on this project will help relieve the pressure.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14
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Paul - I am so sorry to hear about your D16. My heart broke when I read you posts. So glad to hear that she is home and you are giving her lots of love and support!

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Thanks 3! She will get there. I was suprised that W was still critical about her this morning when we spoke in my driveway. Every time she speaks i realize things are going the way they should. I hate saying that..but its been very negative


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14
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I am so sorry your wife is only thinking of herself when she she should only be thinking of her daughter.


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Wow, Sending my best your way. These situations are hard on everyone. Keep being a wonderful Dad to your kids!


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D16 is healing. W continues to drag her feet about all divorce subjects. My BIL called me after almost 8 months. He wanted to say he was sorry about the way things are going and would.like to keep in touch with me and the kids. He said he wasn't sure if his sister (W) would like that but he would like to try. We shall see. Life continues to move forward. I feel like i am a.million miles from where i starting. I still have a long walk ahead of me.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14
Joined: Dec 2013
Posts: 883
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D16 is healing. W continues to drag her feet about all divorce subjects. My BIL called me after almost 8 months. He wanted to say he was sorry about the way things are going and would.like to keep in touch with me and the kids. He said he wasn't sure if his sister (W) would like that but he would like to try. We shall see. Life continues to move forward. I feel like i am a.million miles from where i starting. I still have a long walk ahead of me.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14
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