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Cheers vanilla.

I think I finished my 100 things that make me me. Now need to do the what I want to change.


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Jim, I hope you're going to share you list with us!

I'll do one too!

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Just curious as to whether I've done the right thing by not responding to my Ws question about divorce.

Anyway my first list, the first 20 I listed previously. Still working on the second.

1) My kids (they are part of who i am even though this is external validation)

2) I’m a good dad

3) I’m analytical

4) I get ‘concepts’ pretty quickly

5) I’m able to make connections between ideas

6) I can ‘wing it’ better than most

7) I can improvise solutions

8) I have ideas, always (however unrealistic or unworkable)

9) I’m curious about how things work

10) I’m can make a tasty meal (and delicious cookies)

11) I’m loyal

12) I’m a little bit silly and abstract

13) I have a dry sarcastic humour

14) I can really talk when I’m passionate or excited about something

15) I have an adventurous side

16) I’m genuinely concerned about others

17) I like to snug

18) I love Christmas and get quite festive

19) I get interested in other peoples interests

20) Fairness matters to me

21) My blue eyes

22) I can eat pretty much whatever I like

23) My hair has a silly mind of its own fluffiness to it

24) I can run with an idea

25) I’m intelligent

26) I have a good job

27) My finances are in ok shape

28) I love to travel

29) I can turn out a lot of work quite quickly when i need to

30) I’m successful in my field

31) I have a good technical reputation

32) I like my job

33) I have a great @$$ (and not the donkey kind)

34) I enjoy new things

35) I’m ambitious

36) I’m domestically self-sufficient

37) I make a great ‘dragon’ and a great ‘slug’

38) I make good play-dough animals and dinosaurs

39) I can write a good best mans speech (laughs and tugs the heart strings)

40) I love a good film (though I tear up at some cheesy stuff )

41) I’m a sucker for schmaltz

42) I love music

43) I’ll only do it at home but I dance around and sing to myself

44) I can forage a meal out of not many ingredients and 90% of the time its turns out good.

45) I cant follow a recipe – I have to elaborate and improvise

46) I care about other people

47) Even the people i don’t like i don’t want to see hurt

48) I have no rhythm at all

49) I have good skin – if a bit moley

50) I have a good level of balance in my attitude toward safety and taking risks

51) I good with numbers

52) I think in diagrams and lists

53) I’m a good facilitator of a group

54) I’m inquisitive

55) I’m a good presenter/trainer

56) I’m very pragmatic about most things

57) People dye their hair to have it the same colour as mine

58) I can entertain people with my strange theories

59) I can absorb information quite quickly

60) I don’t get poetry that doesn't rhyme

61) I like a good landscape especially if its dynamic (sea/volcano etc.)

62) I like impressive architecture

63) I’m British/English and I like that

64) I’m a bit of a snob when it comes to some foods like sausages and ice cream

65) I love junk food

66) I’m really good at scrabble (high scores through maths rather than big words)

67) I’m a fountain of useless information and obscure facts, good for pub quizzes

68) I pretty good with obscure film references

69) [Censored]

70) I can make a metaphor out of most things

71) I can talk for ages before I realise I’ve lost everyone

72) I can do one helluva soapbox rant and entertain in the process

73) My mind is usually quicker than my mouth

74) My thoughts are constantly reacting and moving on (if i try to list 3 things then it will be at least 7)

75) I’m pretty quick across a squash court

76) I have a healthy interest in sport

77) I can be utterly convincing on some very silly things

78) I can use logic to argue a point

79) I have ‘Jim Logic’ (term used by my friends)

80) Its important to me that I feel like im doing some good in the world

81) I good at summarising a group conversation and bringing it back to the point

82) I enjoy feeding the ducks

83) I understand and appreciate the importance of tea

84) I play with my kids in stupid (fun) ways wherever and whenever

85) I’m good with lego

86) I like a road trip

87) I’m politically minded

88) I make a good ‘Devils advocate’

89) My opinions are my own (and I always have one)

90) I’m helpful

91) I’m willing to accept my failings and work on them

92) I want to be a better person

93) I’m a bit all or nothing though maybe this isn’t a good thing

94) I can make people laugh

95) I can always see the good in someone else

96) I’m really good at improving on other peoples ideas

97) I like to use a good quote in everyday life (including stupid stuff from films/TV)

98) I like to read and to learn

99) I like to share what i know and get other peoples ideas

100) I really like to spark of other ideas people


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Wow, jim my dream date nice blue eyes do it for me.

The rhc has blue eyes.


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Jim... are you sure you're not my brother from another mother?

(Except the "no rhythm" thing. That definitely sets us apart!)

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Id like to pretend i do have rhythm but i really dont - i get confused by exactly which beat it is im suppose to pay attention to and end up going round in a kind of deranged circle before doing something that makes my S giggle his head off.


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There's an app for that. smile


And "Sausage Snob"? Do tell!

Oh--- I just got #69!


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theres an app for going in a deranged circle??? they really will make anything.

Sausage snob - A full english breakfast is one of the worlds finest meals but the sausages have to be an appropriate quality,with a decent amount of pork. Rubbish sausage = rubbish breakfast (and yes i'm aware how that just sounds like a massive euphemism)

its my attitude to food in general, i like stuff that is what its supposed to be. Id rather have no ice cream than poor quality ice cream. But equally junk food is great because it is what it is - delicious unnutritious junk. I wont eat a 'meat curry' because i take the view that if your not willing to specify then i dont want to eat it.


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69 looks of into the distant past wistfully! Lol

I wish, some poor blokes gunna have a very tough time with me if I don't break him, it's beeeeeeeeeen a veeeeeeeeeery long time.


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Jim

If only you had brown eyes and were 30 years older!

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