LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!!

[Vanilla]

Sound like he may have the winter blues.

Has that ever been investigated?

Vanilla

[T-Mom]

He has many issues. Winter is never a good time of year for him.

[u-turn]

Do you feel down in winter too? It's so sad when you see negative patterns and there is nothing that can be done about the unless they want it.

[T-Mom]

I rarely feel down. I'm a pretty upbeat person, so what I usually feel with stress is UP...lol... The relationship with my husband (or lack thereof) is really the only negative for me... and it has been that way for years.

[T-Mom]

u-turn,
I can't respond to your thread that we have also been communicating on... no option to respond...???

[u-turn]

It's great to be that upbeat person - even if it's fake sometimes - I have to fake it sometimes. Keep that UP.

You may be looking at my old locked thread (they get locked after 100 posts). I made a new one yesterday - thanks for looking

[Mach1]

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Just saw this thread...

This is the best info that I have read, behind the theory of LRT...


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=42377#Post42377

[T-Mom]

Thank you, Mach! I have read that, and I am following through with it. I have just found out that my H has not wasted any time in gathering up some OW phone numbers. This is a tough one for me. He has a few that he is in contact with on a regular basis. I feel a freak out coming on... but I will try my hardest to avoid it.

[Mach1]

One simple mantra for me....

It isn't what happens to me in my life, it is how I choose to respond to it, that matters the most.....

[T-Mom]

So, I know I shouldn't have, but I did.... checked facebook and found one of the PW.. she is very excited about her "conversation" and can't wait til June after that conversation... I really want to ask H to tell me about his moving out plans before the whole world knows... but....I have to play stupid, right?!? I hate this! I wanna ask him when he does plan on moving out.... tomorrow is Christmas Eve.... fun family Christmas with H, and S(14).