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NH115 #2539719 02/18/15 05:15 PM
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Aaaaand, I just found out when OM is sauntering back into town. Time to hone my boundary-setting skills again :-)


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Rzr,

You don't have to set it again. Your W has heard them from you and knows where you stand on this matter.

Don't say a peep. Let W be the one to step up and demonstrate how she can stick with NC from the XOM. You need to give her the benefit of the doubt here. This is the time to do it.

This is the real test in piecing.

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Nope, not saying a word. If she suddenly comes up with a bunch of reasons to be out of the house one night while he's here, I'll know.

21 days and counting.


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Originally Posted By: Wonka
Rzr,

You don't have to set it again. Your W has heard them from you and knows where you stand on this matter.

Don't say a peep. Let W be the one to step up and demonstrate how she can stick with NC from the XOM. You need to give her the benefit of the doubt here. This is the time to do it.

This is the real test in piecing.




x 2.


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BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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Originally Posted By: Rzrback
Nope, not saying a word. If she suddenly comes up with a bunch of reasons to be out of the house one night while he's here, I'll know.

21 days and counting.


It's a great test. I pray she'll pass it.

You're going to want to be at your spiffiest, most empathetic best that week leading up. Do NOT allow her to fight-pick you!


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Why wait until the week preceding? Why not be on my game starting now? smile

That's absolutely true. The way I see it I have 21 days to keep working on that love tank.


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BD 9/9/2014
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I like it, Rzr. grin


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Originally Posted By: Rzrback
Why wait until the week preceding? Why not be on my game starting now? smile

That's absolutely true. The way I see it I have 21 days to keep working on that love tank.



Touche. I stand corrected! grin


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It's a great test. I pray she'll pass it.


I pray Rzrback passes it! grin


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Originally Posted By: sandi2
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It's a great test. I pray she'll pass it.


I pray Rzrback passes it! grin




Touche again!


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