Hmmm.....six phone calls and three texts asking me to call from W. Think I might just swerve on that for now. Thanks Sandi2 - got to change the dynamic.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Hmmm.....six phone calls and three texts asking me to call from W. Think I might just swerve on that for now. Thanks Sandi2 - got to change the dynamic.
Really? 6 calls and 3 txt's? Wow. Something has got to her. Pity you are really busy and can't accommodate her at the moment ;-)
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Ha ha! I cleared off out of the office to see a close friend and my phones was like some kind of christmas tree. No expectations.
yea stay ok dude. You are the leader here.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Huddy, I think you did well. It is alway easier to think I should of said this, done that etc at the heat of the moment. Goodness knows how many of us have thought that!
Tulo, I think WAS have their own rules, H removed every single picture of me on FB on BD and then put separated as his status.
WAS only sees things as they are at the time, unfortunately, we can not change their perspective. According to my spouse I never put him first, however, he forgets that I moved for his job, gave up a promotion etc for him.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
Huddy, I think you did well. It is alway easier to think I should of said this, done that etc at the heat of the moment. Goodness knows how many of us have thought that!
Tulo, I think WAS have their own rules, H removed every single picture of me on FB on BD and then put separated as his status.
WAS only sees things as they are at the time, unfortunately, we can not change their perspective. According to my spouse I never put him first, however, he forgets that I moved for his job, gave up a promotion etc for him.
Ah, yes. I get this as well. According the WW i never did anything with S9 for years. Funny, in all that time he and I spent a lot of time together while she was away working. But I never did anything with him, right?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Tulo, I think WAS have their own rules, H removed every single picture of me on FB on BD and then put separated as his status.
That must have hurt like hell, I would imagine. My ex didn't put singel or anything, he just took it off so I guess I ought to be glad about that. And he waited for a couple of weeks or so before he took it off.
We are all in a pickle here, but I'm grateful that we can vent to each other, I feel it really helps!
Glad for Huddy and his ex-mas tree! Hope we all get one before too long!
All my best to you Smothy! Hug!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
Sounds great!