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I shall go google the band Jellyb

Joe I am glad you find my writing peaceful.

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WH created a new email address, I blocked all his others.

Demanding, not asking I sort out his old bills.

He forwarded an email from the utility company with a very curt "you need to deal with this"

My response "no I don't!"

Then I blocked him. I have already changed suppliers and this bill is in his name.

I could have STFU but didn't.

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'I could have STFU but I didn't' ------ LOVE it.

Hi Vanillia, I hope no one cuts you up in traffic today !!

I hope your doing well and one small step for Vanillia but one huge step away from abuse.

Take care, Rd xxxx

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Good job V!! Don't take no s__t!!! Here are was my response when Stbxw was whining about not having money because of all her bills, "not my problem"!! WH is not your problem either!


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I don't see that as a needed STFU moment, plain and simple - not your problem and you just told it like it is.

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While I completely understand the STFU principle, there are times when you should NOT STFU and you used that beautifully, as you do everything, V. You are amazing! smile


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Well done Lady V, you don't need to do anything at this point but take impeccable care of yourself and let WH continue his downward spiral without messing with you life any further.

Great job!

Big hug,

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Sometimes a no is the most powerful and appropriate response to a situation! Seems like that right thing to have said

Hugs coming your way Lady V!

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WhyUs, I am hoping we have some important conversations ahead on this I can reflect back if you like, with my experience. I have ideas on stock splits and client database values. Much deeper than we can do here.

If you want a new shared thread on this rather than yours or mine. That's OK.

There are many interesting aspects for both of us to explore.

V [/quote]

A new thread would be fine with me.


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WhyUs, if you would like to start one on your post line then I will hop over.

Perhaps, an appropriate title of when a business is shared or we own a business together or business interests? I am sure you have a good idea for a title. Can I suggest a time and date to start the thread, perhaps this weekend.

I will prepare a few things such as a post on how businesses are valued and ideas of spin offs from original businesses.

Does that sound OK?

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Last edited by Vanilla; 08/05/15 09:17 PM.

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