I am just trying to keep moving forward as the last I heard was D was what he wanted. It is just odd. Before BD we were never really angry a lot at each other. We might have an argument, but we would eventually both get over it and we never stopped talking to each other. So the last 8 months of very little communicating, anger, and silent treatment is all still hard to comprehend. He was really holding in a lot.
Thoughts?
Agreed. It would be guessing to know what his distancing means. It could be he needs space to rebuild. If he is doing this in some controlling type way he'll at some point realize it isn't working and change strategies and reach out to you.
Sadly this doesn't always happen, and when it does it can take months or years. Who knows where you'll be if this happens?
Only one thing to do. Make the answer to that question a good place
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
I think doing what YOU want is in your best interest. Your H is clearly not in a place to communicate and is lost. You can be the lighthouse (have you read that again recently) or you can let go; either way you need to move forward with what is best for BT.
Awesome job in the 5K by the way.
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M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
Does anyone know why they removed the edit option and whether we can contact someone to try and get it back? Pretty please! I really had when I have typos in my posts.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
Does anyone know why they removed the edit option and whether we can contact someone to try and get it back? Pretty please! I really had when I have typos in my posts.
Stupid auto correct!!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
