Last edited by Cadet; 08/09/1602:44 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015
So I try to break my feelings down into buckets and see what I can do with each of those and which one is "winning". I agree its like a new relationship so you will need to peel back some of these feelings probably to get the love back if you can.
I see there is a huge trust issue. So maybe its a huge topic you start with that you have to discuss with him to get over the hump withthis. For me, trust is a cornerstone of a relationship and I can't do without it. If you can't turn the corner on this one....then....
Anger/resentment-that may take some time but you have the right to be angry. As some have recommended I would definitely hit counseling together so they can help you break down these things and address each with each other very openly.
Love- well....that will take some time to see if you can get that feeling back. Only you can decide if its worth the emotional investment to overcome the past and start new
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
