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BillyHo, I'm sorry you find yourself in this position. I'll try to catch up on your story and see if I have any pointers for you. Good luck and keep posting!


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
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Hello SM34,

Wonderful news! Thank you so much for sharing your success and insight. It is so gratifying to hear that you were/are committed to Divorce Busting and able to share your story.

Here at the Divorce Busting Center we would love hear more about how our services were able to help you save your marriage. Please feel free to contact me directly.

Many, many thanks!

Cristy

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303-444-7004


A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.

Email virginia@divorcebusting.com or 303-444-7004 for more information or to get started right away.
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Hi SM34. So happy to see another success story on here! So you did a full year of in house separation? I could use some pointers on that. I'm on month #2 and it has been quite difficult. Can you describe the specifics of the in house S? Boundaries, limitations, sleeping arrangements, financial agreements, division of chores and child care? How often did the 3 of you spend time together as a family? Did the dynamics change over time? Thanks!!


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
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Thank you for posting this. I needed to read a success story tonight when things seem so hopeless. Wishing much happiness to you


M:41 H:43
T:26yrs M:19 yrs
S:15 D1:14 D2:9
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Same here, sometimes things get really dark and despite trying to work on us we get discouraged; but it's good to know that it's possible and we're on the right track.


M:37 W:38
D:11,S:7,S:4
T:8, M:5
S:6/1/15 different beds
Physical Seperation 7/5/16
Startof NC 7/22/16
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Thank you for coming back to help others. A real live success story really boosts the moral of those fighting in the trenches.

I imagine that it cannot be easy to read the stories here and relive what you went through. I am glad you are at a place where you can do that. You are right about Cadet, sandi and many many others.

Best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together
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