They want to have you as a plan B, in case their "true love" does not pan out. They also suffer from entitlement, they are convinced that a grave injustice has been committed against them and that they have taken care of all around them for years and now is finally the time for them to be happy. They also distort and rewrite history and a LBS is often perplexed and left wondering WTF is going on and it is quite often that a LBS begins questioning their own sanity...
Sounds like my situation. Seriously, WTF is going on? Ugh.
Same! Sigh.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
They want to have you as a plan B, in case their "true love" does not pan out. They also suffer from entitlement, they are convinced that a grave injustice has been committed against them and that they have taken care of all around them for years and now is finally the time for them to be happy. They also distort and rewrite history and a LBS is often perplexed and left wondering WTF is going on and it is quite often that a LBS begins questioning their own sanity...
Sounds like my situation. Seriously, WTF is going on? Ugh.
Same! Sigh.
Well my wife's om is married so I don't think she will find true love or soul mate their,stupid woman,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
They want to have you as a plan B, in case their "true love" does not pan out. They also suffer from entitlement, they are convinced that a grave injustice has been committed against them and that they have taken care of all around them for years and now is finally the time for them to be happy. They also distort and rewrite history and a LBS is often perplexed and left wondering WTF is going on and it is quite often that a LBS begins questioning their own sanity...
Sounds like my situation. Seriously, WTF is going on? Ugh.
Same! Sigh.
Well my wife's om is married so I don't think she will find true love or soul mate their,stupid woman,
I'm waiting,hoping for the day it all goes tits up,and they both crash and burn, Cheating swines
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
Kev, it's all of our's situation, that is why they call it a script, because it seems like they are all reading from the same script...
It is wild how all these scripts are so similar.
Its almost like the flu - everyone that gets it has similar symptoms. some symptoms are a little worse or better in some people. At the end of the day, a dr can easily diagnose the flu. With all us, we all have spouses diagnised with the same thing and they all have the same symptoms.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
Its almost like the flu - everyone that gets it has similar symptoms. some symptoms are a little worse or better in some people. At the end of the day, a dr can easily diagnose the flu. With all us, we all have spouses diagnised with the same thing and they all have the same symptoms.
Very much so. But the treatment is so different in each case.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Well my wife's om is married so I don't think she will find true love or soul mate their,stupid woman,
My wife's OM is also married. I think they made some sort of pact to stay together while each gets divorced and then live happily ever after while two families are destroyed
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
Well my wife's om is married so I don't think she will find true love or soul mate their,stupid woman,
My wife's OM is also married. I think they made some sort of pact to stay together while each gets divorced and then live happily ever after while two families are destroyed
The only good thing is if the op is married I guess they can't see each other as much and they might not leave their spouses,its still bad for us,I'd like to beat the living sh-t out of him,but think it would be worse if they are single,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
I'd like to beat the living sh-t out of him,but think it would be worse if they are single,
Yep. OM's wife asked me not too, and since she's also going through this hell hole, its a good reason not too. Oh, and im a better person than these two who are destroying their families.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
