Any way you can just let the Divorce sit for a while? You don't have to tell her anything, just continue to work on yourself. Not making a decision on the D would give you an opportunity to really step back and view the situation from a 1000 ft. perspective.
So when she texts me asking about D or she goes to the hearing and I'm not there I should just ignore her?
Originally Posted By: trumpet
You're in the heart of the storm. Don't make too many sudden moves - just keep the ship afloat.
I do need to find employment. Are you saying I should just take a position to pay the bills at the moment?
M 8 yrs EA 6/16 PA 09/16 Separated 10/16 WW moves out 11/16 D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17
The Divorce hearing came and went and I'm still married.
I haven't heard from W in over a week. W and OM are moving to a lake house 2 hours away because the rent is $600 a month. My daughter told me this because W brought all her furniture to D house for storage.
Working on me... I start truck driving school next month!
M 8 yrs EA 6/16 PA 09/16 Separated 10/16 WW moves out 11/16 D Filed 11/16, Hearing 05/08/17
