FOG??

[AnotherStander]

It should be "than" not "then." Your grandmothers would shudder...

I never wrote my dear grandmothers because I spent a lot of time with both of them. So they were never subjected to my typographical errors I miss those ladies!

i have implemented so many changes already and have gone above and beyond to root out my fears, insecurities and pain that made me greedy and selfish to which im still working on...it surely is a process...

Good, and yes it's a process that never ends. I think that was my biggest lesson in all that I went through, is that you can never put a relationship on autopilot or it will die on the vine. Everything worth having in life requires work to keep/ maintain. Well except Twinkies, you can stick them in a drawer and they are still edible in 40 years. As edible as they ever were anyway.

[knight2]

Good, and yes it's a process that never ends. I think that was my biggest lesson in all that I went through, is that you can never put a relationship on autopilot or it will die on the vine. Everything worth having in life requires work to keep/ maintain. Well except Twinkies, you can stick them in a drawer and they are still edible in 40 years. As edible as they ever were anyway.

so many things to think about now...