Wife checked out (3)

[2ltl2lt]

Not much new going on, just her flip flopping. She is back to wanting D. I'm about ready now myself. I just hate to think about the kids and how they will handle this.

[trumpet]

Thanks for the update 2lt2lt. You've had some amazing journeys.

Keep checking in. Why does she flip flop?

[mutatio]

My wife wants a divorce, 100%, she will not consider anything else. It $ucks, it hurts but after a 1 1/2 years I the sword hanging over my head is gone. All thats left is the dance of the vampires. Do you know the way to Santa Fe my brother. Now I have to really examine where I want to go, a little of me wants to go to Colorado. I love the high elevation desert. Time will reveal my path.

Sorry about your wife, being on the fence $ucks. Keep posting

[2ltl2lt]

Good morning all. Been awhile since my last post. We're still in limbo, she hasn't done anything towards D that I know of and neither have I. I have moved out of the house and let her stay with the kids. I know that is against the advice here but I felt like it was the right thing to do for the kids. I see them all the time still and WW has been very easy to work with as far as schedules are concerned. I see a lot of new names on here and wish everyone the best. I will keep checking back periodically.

Hey Mr. Mu! I'm so sorry to hear that. Well at least you know now, anything is better than limbo. One of these days we need to meet up in person. Good luck

[2ltl2lt]

So I find out last week that WW lost her job over a month ago and didn't think it was important enough to tell me about it. I wouldn't care except that she had all of us on her insurance and as of right now our kids are uninsured. Now I have to put my business on hold and get a job myself. Nothing surprises me anymore.

[trumpet]

2ltl2lt,

I'm so sorry to hear about WW, and your loss of insurance. Can you get COBRA from her work in the meantime?

[2ltl2lt]

I'm working on it

[2ltl2lt]

Wow, it has been over a year now since I have posted anything here. Well much has happened. I am actually back in the marital home and still maintain 50/50 custody with WW. I ended up filing for divorce this past March myself because she was dragging her feet on every single thing. We have agreed to no child support and I will pay her for her half of the equity in the home. Our court date is set for early December so I will keep posting updates as we near the date.

[Gordie]

Wow, sorry you had to file. How are you doing? How are the kids? Are you still standing?

[2ltl2lt]

Thanks for stopping by friend. I am doing ok, I have a new girlfriend that is very supportive of my situation. The kids are great, they are adjusting well to their new reality, I couldn't be more proud of them. As far as me standing for my marriage goes I would say that I have been more than patient and more than understanding considering the horror show she has put us through. I reached several lines in the sand that I never thought I would and kept moving them back. It is now time that I move forward and restore the balance and self respect that my children and I deserve. I am hoping for the best for you and your situation.